Tuesday, August 12, 2014

The Summer Meal I Can't Stop Eating

Nothing beats a Saturday stroll through your local farmer's market, gathering a fresh bounty of just-picked goodness. It can be super challenging in the South to eat healthfully when-- let's be honest-- the fried chicken is usually way better than bacon bit, shredded cheddar, and iceberg lettuce (all from a bag) smothered in ranch salad on the menu. And while it feels healthier on your conscious, it's probably not much better in terms of nutrition or calories. So, when summer rolls around, I get so excited because it's the one time when the South shines in all of its homegrown glory for a small season, garden trumps grease.

I'm always on the hunt for recipes that showcase summer harvest, and this Summer Succotash from Frank Stitt is arguably my favorite (I'll share some others that I love later). For all of you non-Southerners who might not know, Frank Stitt is the king of Southern cuisine and he rules Alabama with his culinary kingdom-- the biggest jewel in his crown is his flagship restaurant, Highlands Bar and Grill (though others will argue with you about that). And, it's no surprise that he hails from the most glorious place in Alabama where the cream of the crop are born and bred: Cullman. He is my hometown hero. You can find the recipe in his cookbook, THE SOUTHERN TABLE. It's a must-read. And if you ever have fresh crab meat, you will never eat a better crab cake than the one in his book. For the succotash, sherry vinegar and good olive oil make this-- so make sure to bite the bullet and buy the good stuff.

Bonus: this meal is even better the next day for leftovers. Because most of meals that I eat at home are for a party of one, it's tough to find healthy veggie-rich meals that hold up for a few days. I make the succotash but add the herbs and cook the fish individually each night. The herbs, especially the basil, tend to wilt after 24 hrs.





For the succotash
1/2 small red onion, cut into 1-inch-thick slices
1 cup cooked lady peas (or substitute pink-eyes, crowders, or cranberry beans)
1/4 cup pot liquor from the peas reserved
2 tomatoes, seeded and cut into 1/4-inch dice (I prefer heirloom cherry tomatoes. They're so sweet and delish!)
2 ears corn, husked, boiled for 4 minutes, and kernels cut off the cob (I like Silver Queen-- the sweeter ones are best against the smokiness of the charred onion)
1 small shallot, finely minced
4 basil leaves, torn into small pieces
4 sprigs dill leaves, coarsely chopped
A few chives, finely chopped
1 tablespoon sherry vinegar
Kosher salt and freshly ground white pepper to taste
3 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil, plus extra for drizzling if desired
1 tablespoon vegetable oil, such as canola
1 lemon, cut into wedges

For the flounder 
Four 6- to 8-ounce flounder fillets, skin on (Frank calls for flounder, but I've had a hard time finding it so I normally go with salmon. I've also done snapper and grouper-- any light, white fish is great. And in Culllman, fresh seafood is a challenge so you could do steak or chicken)
salt and pepper
1.Make the succotash. Prepare a hot grill or preheat the broiler. Grill or broil the onion slices, turning once, until lightly charred on both sides, 3 to 4 minutes per side. Let cool, then cut into 1/4-inch-dice.
2. Combine vegetables. In a large bowl, combine the charred onion, peas, tomatoes, corn, shallot, basil, dill, and chives. Stir in the sherry vinegar and season with salt and pepper. Stir in the olive oil, taste, and adjust the seasoning. Set aside.
3. Prepare the flounder. Heat a heavy skillet (cast iron works great) just large enough to hold the fillets over medium-high heat. Season the fish with salt and pepper. Add the oil to the hot skillet and heat until shimmering. Reduce the heat to medium, place the fillets skin side up in the skillet, and cook until nicely golden on the first side, 3 to 4 minutes. Carefully turn the fish and cook until just done, another 3 to 4 minutes. (Peek inside one fillet to check for doneness -- the thickest part should have turned to a pearly white.) While the fish finishes cooking, add the succotash and pea pot liquor to a saute pan and cook over medium heat until heated through. 4. Serve. Transfer the fish to serving plates and serve with the succotash and the lemon wedges. Drizzle each fillet with a splash of olive oil if desired.

Monday, August 11, 2014

Just Do It: The Power of Yes

Nike knows what's up. They are my new motto. Just. Do. It. Three, tiny words that seem so easy in theory but so difficult to actually live by. I consider myself a risk-taker and relatively brave and spontaneous on the scale of life. But when I stop and think about reality, it's so easy to let opportunities slip by. Regret is one of the most evil words I know (only second to shame, boring and practical). I used to think of the word "regret" only when I regretted things from my past. But rarely do I have regret about the things I've done-- even if I made some big mistakes in the process. What I truly regreat are the things I never did.

In college, I didn't study abroad because I thought my life would be over if I missed certain parties. How wrong was I. If only I'd known as a freshman that I really wouldn't miss a sea of red solo cups and warm watermelon Boone's Farm four years later. And now, that decision is easily my biggest regret of college.

Fast forward five years later. Last week a friend of mine invited me on a spontaneous trip to Barcelona. Immediately the practical and responsible side of me kicked in, "You need to budget." "You just moved." "Save money." "Wait until you have more clients." "That's going to be expensive." Etc, etc, etc. As I was seconds away from silently talking myself out of it, I thought about a promise that I made to myself when I moved to Nashville: I'm not going to wait for certain things to happen to me before I start living the life of my dreams. I'm not going to wait for a certain salary. I'm not going to wait for a relationship.

What if the life that you've been dreaming of really hasn't passed you by. What if the life that you've been dreaming of has everything that you want in it. Right now. With no additions needed. I'm not saying that you can't want more and have desires for other things in your life. But I'm tired of watching my "now" pass me by while I wait for my "next." Barcelona, here I come.

Now I leave you with my Barcelona daydreams, via The Sartorialist...












Thursday, August 7, 2014

Top Ten: Affordable Cocktail Tables (actually, it's just nine but ten sounds better)

I love a good cocktail table. It's one of the rare "furniture" purchases that can still be made on a whim-- more of a commitment than your average coffee table accessory, but way less of an investment than actual furniture. To me, these little guys fall into the category of "room jewelry" and I put them in the same box as lamps, mirrors, and wall art. You can never have too many, and can almost always find a place for them, regardless of moving to a new home or redecorating. Here are my favorite cocktail and occasional tables that won't break the bank-- everything is under $200-- so don't be afraid to fall in love!


From top left: 


Wednesday, August 6, 2014

The Best Wedding Nail Polishes from Essie and OPI

We all know about the OPI and Essie tried-and-true classic sheer: Bubble Bath and Ballet Slippers/Mademoiselle/Sugar Daddy (depending on which Essie fan you ask). And obviously you can find them at any nail salon in America, but I want to share some of the lesser-known OPI and Essie colors that you will LOVE! They're perfect when you want to look polished, feminine, and timeless. Weddings, job interviews, or just because you're a sheer pink polish kinda gal.




First row, from left:
 Essie Marshmallow, OPI Don't Burst My Bubble, Essie Waltz, OPI Don't Touch my Tutu

Second row, from left:
OPI Mimosas for Mr. and Mrs., Essie Blushing Bride, OPI You Callin' Me a Lyre, Essie Better Together

Third row, from left:
Essie Spaghetti Strap, OPI Privacy Please, Essie Not Just a Pretty Face, OPI Barre My Soul

I divided each row into a color story. The first row is white/ivory, second row is sheer with more of a peach/warm undertone, the third row is more of a pink/cool undertone. Below are swatches of all of the colors. To shop the colors, the easiest thing to do is Google the names. 


Essie Marshmallow
This is definitely the most opaque white I would recommend for a "classic" nail look. The others, like Blanc, look too much like whiteout. And unless you're wearing the right outfit, can honestly lean a little Panama City Spring Break. No thanks. 





OPI Don't Burst My Bubble
Technically, the next color, Waltz by Essie is more "white" than this one. But this is a great creamy sheer pink. And if you're die-hard a Bubble Bath fan, try this one out and see what you think. 




Essie Waltz
This is one of my absolute favorites. Don't take this one on face value. Looking at the bottle, it comes across as a lot more "white" than it is because it's super sheer, so the pink of your nail warms it up a lot.



OPI Don't Touch My Tutu
This color is gorgeous. It's got a hint more pink than the other whites, but I like to think of it like ballet tights. Basically white... but not.


OPI Mimosas for Mr. and Mrs.
Another great sheer-- this color is actually from OPI's Wedding Collection. It has more of a peach/nude undertone than the classic "sheers" that you think of. But I actually like that because if you have yellow tones in your skin, this is more of "subtle" shade for your skin vs. a pink shade like Bubble Bath or Mademoiselle. 


Essie Blushing Bride
This is the next step up from clear. It has color, but you will definitely see the whites of your nails with this one. For nights when I know I want super over-the-top hair or makeup, I like to pair down my nails. This is a great way to still wear color, but not. (ignore the white tips, this was just the best example I could find for this color)


OPI You Callin Me A Lyre
Again, another favorite here. For all of you olive or yellow-tone gals, this group is more of your "natural" range. All of these colors are super sheer and glossy, so they give a similar look to a high-shine gel manicure. 


Essie Better Together
This color says "Bride" to me. So many of the classic sheers are almost a little too pale, in my opinion, and this one has just enough pink to be feminine and just enough yellow to still feel warm.



Essie Spaghetti Strap
In my opinion, this is the perfect pink. And it's almost a "jelly" color. I don't know if that makes sense, but it's suuuuper glossy. 




OPI Privacy Please
This one is just a tad, a tad, creamier than Spaghetti Strap. Basically, it's a two-coater, when Spaghetti Strap is more of a three-coater to get a saturated hue. 



Essie Not Just A Pretty Face
Actually, if I had more space, I would have added this color to the second row roundup. To me, this is the perfect alternative to clear polish. It's nail equivalent to clear lip gloss. Shiny, juicy goodness.



OPI Barre My Soul
This would also fall into a similar category as Not Just a Pretty Face. The only thing I would add about it is that this is my summer alternative to Bubble Bath. It's slightly warmer and looks fabulous if you have a little hint of a tan. 




Friday, August 1, 2014

Weekend Treat: Dip Dyed Mallows and 10-Minute Mini S'more Pies

I was browsing my blog feed and came across the cutest snack/party idea: DIY Pink Dip-Dyed Marshmallows. Admittedly, it was intended for a kid's birthday party but I think it works just as well for the old folks. But I read the DIY and it's super easy. And to top it all off, last night when I was scrolling through Instagram I came across these mini S'more pies from DOUGHMESTIC HOUSEWIFE (aka Cookie Master Artist) that take 10 minutes (holy dangerous late-night snack) to make. Thank God I didn't know about microwave mug cakes in college because the Freshman 15 would have easily been pushing 30 by the end of the year. 



Dip-Dyed Marshmallows

1 cup of water

neon food coloring tubes (I used pink and purple)

mega marshmallows (found these big ones at Walmart)

To the water add several drops of food coloring (about 10 drops depending on the brightness you want). Mix food coloring. Gently and holding the marshmallow, drop it into the dye mixture. I dropped each sort of a different way each time to get them looking a bit different.  Let dry on a cooling rack for several hours. 





10 MINUTE S'MORE PIES

photo from The Plaid and Paisley Kitchen

Graham Cracker S’More Cups – Doughmestic Housewife (If you don't follow her yet, do it. She's the Michelangelo of sugar cookies.) 
1 1/2 C graham cracker crumbs
1/3 C sugar
6 T butter, softened
Milk Chocolate Pieces (you can do semi sweet or dark, or even peanut butter, how good would that be?)
Mini Marshmallows
(if you don't want to make graham cracker crust, you can buy pre-made minis at the store)
Mix crust ingredients and press into greased mini muffin pan. Press firmly to form a cup shape. Cook at 375 for 6 minutes. Add mini marshmallows (I only had big) and milk chocolate pieces and cook a bit longer until toppings start to melt. Remove from oven and let cups cook to warm.


Thursday, July 31, 2014

Coastin': The Best Coasters Around

I've never had a desire to go hunting for the following reasons: 1) You're cold. 2) You head out at an ungodly hour in the morning. 3) You can't talk. Sounds like a frigid version of hell.

However, I think I would have been a damn good hunter because when I set my sight on something, it's going down. Today, I was hunting coasters. And boy did I harvest some good ones. I realized that I was constantly wiping up ring marks on the glass on my bedside tables so I decided to go coaster hunting. And the beauty of my version of hunting is that you get to feast on my bounty with me! And get to sleep late and talk all you want and end by spending money!! Glorious!


Hello Kate Spade Glitter Bombs!! These were the ones I ended up buying. 


Hello Waylande Gregory. I love everything you make. Especially your coasters. Lions, tigers, elephants, oh my! There all so great. 

 
Hello precious citrus coasters. I can't think of anything my limeade would love more than you. 


Hello Mr. Adler. You did it again. Another groovy chic ceramic. And my two favorites: malachite having a love child with black and gold. Done. 


Hello DIY Project. Future Cat Lady Alert: I love needlepointing. I say this as I dust the moth balls off of my favorite cardi/cami set. But seriously, how cute are these little needlepoint gems? I love all of the bold geometrics. Very Trina Turk/Palm Beach. Perfect for poolside. 

Hello ballet slipper pink quartz hugged in gold leaf. Happy all around. 


Hello stud central! You'd have to make sure these went in the right house or else I could see it looking a little cheap-- Z Gallerie bachelor pad-esque, but overall, I love them.

Hello chevron! How you never fail. 


Hello shagreen! Nothing triggers my gag reflex faster than the word "neutral." And my mom loves to throw it around. That, and "practical." I just threw up again. If the world only had room for practical, there would never be red lipstick or high heels. But sometimes mom knows best. I can't argue with the fact that OPI Sweet Memories (similar to Bubble Bath) will always be the most flawless mani shade. And that certain things, like greige shagreen coasters, will always be beautiful in any home. 


Hello python! Stick it to the devil and chill your margarita on his sorry little ass. Actually, it's not really python, it's leather. Ah, well, at least Chic-fil-A will benefit from it. #winning #lovethosenuggets


Hello happy hues! Cheerful and cheap-- 8 bucks a pop.


Truth be told, I already used my malachite plug, but then I started actually craving a real malachite option to add to the mix. Love these. 



Wednesday, July 30, 2014

From Ruins to Royalty. Recapturing Your Abandoned Palaces.

In the past week, I randomly kept coming across insane photos of grand old homes and palaces that had been forgotten over the years-- time hasn't been kind to them, but beauty still glimmers through the decay and neglect. There is something tragic, yet so magical and captivating about them. It's funny what God uses to speak to us. And this week, it has been these palatial places from the past.

I don't know why these images have taken me the way they have. I think because they remind me of myself. And what happens we abandon the thrones and the titles that have been given to us. When I look at these pictures, I see God's heart for me. I see his desire for me to live in a place of extravagant, unthinkable beauty, that's so amazing and overtop. And then I think about myself. And I see a girl from Cullman, Alabama, whose feels more normal than royal. I have a hard time getting my head around that fact that God desires for me to inhabit dreams that are palace level-- no double-wide dreams. Or even McMansion dreams. When I think about living in a house like that, I'm totally down for the servant role-- and I can feel confident that I'd be a pretty fab one, at that, like Anna from Downtown Abbey. Head Lady's Maid. You get to live in the house, rub elbows with the fam, be a part of the whole "life" in a kinda/sorta way. I would dominate braiding their hair, picking out their outfits, and cheering them on when a new suitor came knocking.

But when it's my castle and no one else's, do I feel big enough to walk in those shoes? Ummm.... not so much. My Steve Maddens feel a little lowly for such a lofty calling. In my head, of course I know that I'm worthy of that. But in my heart, it's way more comfortable, and believable, to be on the sidelines. The hair braider and suitor cheerer. Not Queen B. It reminds me of one of my all-time favorite movie lines from The Holiday when Kate Winslet says, "You should at least be the Leading Lady in your own damn life." And that's how I feel about living in these palaces. I want to start living like I'm the Leading Lady of my own damn life. All the time. Not just some of the time. In my head. And my heart. No more, "Leading Lady if I lost 5 pounds." No more, "Leading Lady if was dating ___ or married to ___." No more, "Leading Lady if I landed a big client." No more, "Leading Lady if ___ accepted me."

I don't know what titles you've been looking for to make you feel worthy of your palace, but today, instead of being comfortable as the Lady's Maid, or only feeling worthy to rule your castle if you got a few more badges to finally "rank up" to the next level, own your birthright, the title you were given from before you were born and the one you are being called today. And that's the Queen of Your Castle (with the full deed, no mortgage payments or interest). Put on your crown, take back your title, and walk the halls of your palace like you own the place. Because you do.

Here's my prayer today, "Jesus, thank you that you call me who I am, even when I don't see it. And thank you that my title and my crown is already secured in you. I repent for choosing the servants quarters when all along you've had a full palace waiting for me to rule it. Today, I pick up my crown and put on my sash and I wear them with pride. Help me rebuild and restore the royalty that you want me to live in every day. Thank you that that is your true heart for me."






















photos by Patrycja Makowska unless otherwise noted


And how FREAKING COOL IS THIS??? an Australian couple bought Chateau de Gudanes, a crumbling estate in France, and are in the process of restoring all of its 94 rooms back to their former glory. Ah! I know, so awesome. You can follow their blog and Instagram feed here. 


Reclaiming the chateau. 





18th-century wallpaper and horses munching on the grounds.






Hand-painted ceiling panels are being restored.